Well, Don, I'm with you. It doesn't really matter if the person tending the flag did not pull it intentionally or if it got stuck. The putter's job was to put and not pull so why should he be penalized.
Because if the player is not willing to accept responsibility, they should walk over and
remove the flag themselves.The reasons people have a flag attended are because they may be in a position not to see the hole, or it may help in depth perception and judging distance. In any case, it is the call of the player to decide whether they want the pin attended or out of the hole.
Golf is like life. Some people play the game the way it should be played and some people bitch and blame everything but themselves.

BTW, besides having the hole to hold the flag, the cup liner has water drain holes in the bottom. The correct way to tend a flag is to pull the flag, place it back in the hole resting on one of the drain holes and stand two or three feet from the cup. When you raise the flag, it will never stick.